So Bachelors, have you all ever asked yourself that how are you? Anyone? We all Bachelors are busy managing so many things together that sometimes, actually not sometimes but every time we forget our self in making everyone around us happy. Everywhere in the world, each and every person is advising each other to be yourself. So, are you being yourself? You think that by being yourself you might hurt someone’s feeling. But have you all ever thought that by not being you who you are, you all are hurting yourself. That’s the problem with us we can’t hurt anyone’s feelings or emotions. And while taking care of everyone around us we forget to take care of ourselves and we forget to ask our self that how are you? Is everything fine with you?
You can go to the gym, drink your water, and take your vitamins, but if you don’t deal with the shit going on in your heart and head you’re still going to be unhealthy. Try to listen to your soul, what it wants to tell you. It is completely okay if you don’t talk much with people around you, but it’s not at all okay if you don’t talk with yourself. Your soul has so much to say it’s just you need to listen and understand.
You know guys I have personal experience in this, talking to yourself is the best way to heal our heart and mind. Because the way WE feel the pain, the emotions, the heart break no one, I repeat no one else in the world can feel it other than our soul. We are for our selves, do remember that.
What thoughts go through your mind when you’re alone with yourself?
When you have done wrong with someone, obviously your self-talk is going to make you feel worse. But if you have done right with someone, then your self-talk will lead you to find the better YOU. The thoughts that go through your mind when you’re alone that shows the ‘TRUE YOU’. And only you can see the real YOU. No one else knows yourself better than you. So pay attention to your thoughts.
Have you ever lied to yourself?
No, you can’t lie to yourself. Only your soul has saw the worse and best movements of your life that you haven’t shared with anyone. Your soul knows everything about you. You can’t hide anything from it. That’s the point you need to understand that self-talk is why necessary, because all your secrets our safe with yourself.
Have you ever had that mirror talk?
If not, then do it today. Mirror talk helps in building Confidence and Positivity. Tell your mirror self each and everything like what is running on your mind and what is bothering you. Ask your mirror self, why you are upset or why you are happy, why you are laughing or why you are crying. I bet you, your mirror self will definitely give you solutions to your each problem. Try this today.
Have you ever notice the way you are treating yourself?
We all have hurt ourselves in the process of making other people happy, we all have put others first and ourselves last. Treat yourself the way you treat your loved ones.
Have you ever doubted yourself?
A BIG YES to this. Somewhere you all believed when someone said that something is wrong with you. And you all started doubting yourself for that. Guys do remember “Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will”. Never allow opinions of others to disturb your inner tranquility. Also do remember nothing is wrong with you. I Repeat NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU.
Have you ever heard your Inner Voice?
There is a voice inside of you
That whispers all day long,
“I feel this is right for me,
I know that this is wrong.”
No teacher, preacher, parent, friend
Or wise man can decide
What’s right for you–just listen to
The voice that speaks inside.”
― Shel Silverstein
Make yourself your first priority
Make yourself, your career, your dreams, your passion your first priority rather than making someone else. Don’t let others handles your happiness. Your happiness is within you, you just need to recognize it.
Self-talk is a much needed therapy. Ask yourself who has done this to you? What you have now become? Always try to talk positively with yourself. Because only YOURSELF has every answer to your question, every solution to your problem.
So my friends, Have you ever ask yourself, HOW ARE YOU?
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